Why he haven't propsed, yet.
I was wondering, how you meet a lady, get a relationship going with her, for a few months and she is expecting the "WILL YOU MARRY ME" question- when you are sure she doesn't really know how to handle the real shit; like Dr T. Sarah in prison break s1e20(if you haven't seen this episode, then you need to rewatch PRISON BREAK).
Women, we are not looking for Angels to propose to; all we are seeking are people who are willing to stick with us, far beyond the fading of our mutual ecstasies of "boo/bae- hood".
We are not searching for virgins to marry; just those that understand the fact that once married- the shop is now in 'mono-mode'.
We are craving for women, who will not increase our desire to be with our mums all the time- because we want someone to have an intellectual conversation with. Sex is cool, but I would rather have an intellectual argument for days without sleep; than dig for 'No diamonds' all night!
We are looking out for chicks that will be so large and homely that there will be no side; for a side chick to log on to! We are pressing for those women, who will be so "IT"; that nothing feminine matters at the same level!
Seriously, until we begin to see ladies that will make our houses homes; you girls will have to stay on the queue and keep reciting your POEM- "ALL MEN ARE THE SAME"!
You are welcome to share you opinion on this.
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ReplyDeleteMy brother, you said it all. It's not good for a man to be married and still feels single. If that is how marriage is, then, there is no need of getting married, period.
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It's no longer the era where women long for husbands that will stick like chewing gum (that in itself is good), however, they seek husbands who will be teachers to them and their kids, husbands they can draw from their well of wisdom, men who is teachable and at same time model leadership for everyone to copy, husbands who don't leave their life to chance but are intentional with every step and above all, husbands who have built and have a consistently growing relationship with God. Until then, the unmarried men should suspend the issue if marriage and attend to weighter matters.
ReplyDelete#Thank you dear writer.
Great response here, will publish a follow up
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